Fathers For Real  

Fellas, these women have us shook. We hear babies, we get to running in the other direction. How are we going to be scared of the most sacred and beautiful part of our existence? There is no greater phenomena in this universe than the relationship that exist between a father and his children. Its crazy that our women have us scared to start a family, scared to have babies.

For decades woman have been using babies as tools and weapons to gain authority and control over the fathers. In their eyes, since they physically gave birth to a live fetus, the alleged sperm donor doesn't have any rights. They lead us to believe that the only rights we have are the rights they give us. Then let us not comply, they smear our name and credibility in the mud.

Women love to do that. They suffer from the "Your Daddy Ain't Shit Syndrome." They lead everyone to believe that your just a deadbeat and you don't do anything for your children. They put roadblocks in the way of you fathering your children then work the system to get you for child support.

During my divorce, my ex-wife asked me, "What makes you think you deserve to be a father?" What kind of question is that? What makes you think you deserve to be a mother? This is the mentality of a lot of women.

Parenting is not a privilege, it's a responsibility. Both parents are equally responsible for parenting these children. These women think that us fathers are only responsible for the financial obligations, not the decision making or anything like that.
If you are married and you are the breadwinner, it's okay for you to be responsible for the financial obligations that occur with the child. But when you live separate from your child's mother and you are maintaining a home for you and your child, just like she is, you both should be equally responsible for the financial responsibilities.

Women don't think like that. They feel like their home is the child's home, not yours. Since they're your baby's mommas, you should be making sure they are financially stable regardless of your own financial status. Send the child to you looking like a bum then say, "If he want him to look fresh he should buy him some new clothes." What happened to the new clothes I sent him home in?

Women love to say you don't do anything for your child when you're not handing everything to them. I keep a supply of diapers and wipes at my house for my two children. I keep onesies, socks and outfits. My children's mothers don't have to bring anything. But they'll never acknowledge or respect that.

Of course this isn't all women, and this isn't all men. There are plenty of women who respect their children's fathers. Just like there are men who neglect their children and are actually deadbeats. Hopefully this will help both mothers and fathers become the best parents they can be.

I know my rights though. I know that I have rights most importantly. I, like many other men, am too good of a father to be exploited by my children's mothers. I take care of my children the way I'm supposed to, not the way they think I should.